This week's guest is the luminous Cindy Ryan of Blissful Intuitive. Cindy is an intuitive guide and reiki master based in North Vancouver, BC. In Cindy's words; " I am humbled to be able to help humans to find their uplifting, honest inner voice. Working together, we connect back to the inner tools and techniques to achieve an open, balanced life! I spent 35 years believing I need to search for more, to be more, to achieve and to complete but in that I was not seeing the life I was in. I unraveled and explored for about 10 years while developing my skills. I still see the great beauty in learning more but I am slowly releasing to the concept of attachment. This means I am ok with both the bliss and mess. I enjoy it all for right now and can not wait for what is to arrive. " In this conversation we delve into the rawness of Cindy's experience leaving a marriage and a 17 year career to follow her passion and calling, dealing with chronic pain and illness and what that has taught her, what people get wrong about intuition and so much more.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
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Welcome friends to agency wellness. The podcast. My name is Cody Mar after decades living with the diagnosis of chronic illness. I began to ask myself if this diagnosis, this label was really helpful. I started to challenge my own learned concepts, as well as cultural concepts of what it means to be well. I spent years studying all sorts of techniques and experimenting with different modalities. I took course after course and certification after certification. All of this amazing knowledge has enriched my life and informed how I care for myself and who I am as a practitioner. However, my greatest teacher and my most credible source has been and continues to be my own amazing body agency. Wellness was born out of the feeling that just like actors need agents to support and guide their careers. Sometimes in the wild, wild world of wellness, you need a health agent, someone you can trust to help you navigate the various twists and forks and bumps.
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You inevitably encounter as a human living in today's world who wants to feel well, be well. Who wants to be, let's just say it happy and healthy. This podcast will help you expand your knowledge, vision, and practice of wellness. I'll be bringing you heartfelt conversations with a variety of experts in fields, such as naturopathic medicine, feng, Shui, life coaching, womb healing, psychic guidance, creativity, Pilates, and so much more. It's my hope and intention that from these conversations, you can begin to tap into your own unique and ever evolving wellness recipe. I'll be right here with you the whole way. So let's dive in
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Here you go.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
On this episode of agency wellness, the podcast I'm excited and honored to welcome Cindy Ryan of blissful intuitive. Cindy is an intuitive guide and Reiki master based in north Vancouver, British Columbia. She is humbled to be able to help humans connect back to the inner tools and techniques. Find their honest voice and achieve an open and balanced life. Cindy is deeply committed to her own inner world and shares her raw truth of what it means to live a life of both bliss and mess. In this vulnerable episode, we delve into topics such as what is bliss, leaving a marriage and stable job to follow your heart asking up and what that means. Surrender the various types of intuition, unlocking your own innate intuitive gifts. So grab a tissue, my friends, and join me in welcoming Cindy Ryan to the podcast. Welcome Cindy. Thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Hi, thank you so much for having me.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
It was my pleasure. I'm really excited for you to be here. So Cindy, let's just start off with just a little bit about you. Who are you, what do you do in the world?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Thank you so much for that. I have a couple questions I'd love to dig into just around that first thing that you shared. So yes. Tell me what does bliss mean to you? That is a very loaded word. I feel in a way.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I know.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
So if some, you know, I, your website, which I'll we'll have in the show notes of this episode, so people can find you, there is a lot of bliss, it's a lot of bright colors, beautiful colors, soft colors, and the word bliss is sort of in the name, right. Blissful intuitive. And I'm curious, sort of how that word came about for you and what it really means to you.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yes. So I, um, lo quite a little while ago, my, my Instagram account and website was called bliss and sunshine, and it was how I described, um, an energy healing, um, session. It was the only words I could explain it. And, um, cuz as just what I felt, it was like this moment of bliss and for me, BLIS is it's not something that we're gonna feel all the time, but it's what I could come back to in really tough times. And what you and I share, although very, very different is chronic pain. And so we're going, we've gone through that journey to where we are now. Um, but what I had learned originally, I was like, oh my gosh, it's like BLIS. Like how can I incorporate this bliss into my life so that when I have challenges, I can remember this because we're not.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Um, and sometimes people always say like, are you always happy? And I'm like, no, no, no. I'm not always happy. But if you can remember blips of bliss, you can, you can just, it's like, you can fill that cuff up for yourself so that when you're in that really hard point, it's like, you can close your eyes in just for a moment. Go, I, I have it. I know it. And so that's why I, I wanna share that with people is I'm not ignorant. I'm not
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Thank you so much for that. Yeah. I think that's a misconception in general. I mean it's no one, you know, we're just human. So we do the best with words, but yeah, there's this association with the word BLIS with happiness, like, oh, she's so happy and light all the time. And I know you, and I know that that's not really what, who you are, what you're about. I know that that's part of you and that's something that, you know, that is hard earned those moments. So yes, let's go into a little bit, um, of the background. So we we'll come back around to the present, but let's, let's go back a little bit. So I know from your website that, and just knowing you that you didn't always have access to this gift that you have now. No, it's something that was not around in the early part of your life. So tell me a little bit about how you, you know, when you look now at looking back at like, how did this gift come back into my life, that sort of process
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Mm-hmm
Speaker 4 (08:00):
This is great. And I, I don't wanna fully interrupt you, but this is, I think something that a lot of people resonate with. Oh, I remember having these feelings too. Like I do too. I had these feelings as a child. I was terrified at night. I didn't know that part of your story. I was deathly afraid to go to sleep like horrible night terrors when I was a kid would not asleep. Um, why do you think that is? Why do you think so many people relate to that feeling of having this recollection in childhood and then, um, you know, you'll get there, but what happens as you move into adulthood?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I think the veil is very open for children. You still, before the age of six or seven are still in this space of, um, you're still very awake. Um, it's before we've entered the society where we are told that we are, um, you know, well, almost like you're dumb if you are still in that imagination, which is what our Truet self. Right? And so, because so awake and so aware, you're also open to all of that energy, which you can't really understand, but you, you do understand. And then as adults we've been taught that that is, um, nightmares, that those are dreams, that that is fear based, that, that, so you immediately, and that's just generational, right. But to a child, you know, it's very real. And um, so then that's really hard for you to understand, because you are saying this is real. And then an adult is saying it is not real.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
So what I've actually taught my children to do is to, uh, new method, sorry. And I'm skipping now to the future. It's okay. We can go back and forth. It's uh, is just, is new methods to say you actually, you are in charge, you are in control. So if you are feeling this right now, rather than saying it is a dream, that it is, uh, what it is. No, I hear you. Yes. What you are feeling is actually valid. So these are the tools and the steps that you need so that you feel in control. If this is, this is something real for you, what do you need in this space and time? And it has allowed my children so that they don't feel like this is a dream or that they're crazy. No. Okay. Do you think there's an energy in your room? Okay.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
What do you need to feel that you are in control and this, what has transpired for them is so massive. The words that the, the language, the, the way they speak, how I need breathing right now, I need tapping right now. I need this. Right. Great. Mm. Um, and so that is something and nothing against our parents, they didn't know. Right.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
I assumed that everybody else was empathetic as I was. And so that if somebody was beside me and feeling sick and I was feeling sick, that that's how everyone else was. Cuz I only knew myself and I continued to grow and grow that way. Um, but I was blocking who I was and learning. Um, it's how they talk about people with ADHD, that from an early age, you learn skills without realizing you're learning skills. And I think I was very quick to learn a lot of, um, techniques and strategies to learn in a school system as well as in society. And, but what was also happening to me because I was, um, picking up this energy. Um, I picked up physical ailments of people. I picked up, um, physical pains I've oh, like exhaustion, everything. I did not know boundaries at all. And um, so a lot of things happened for me, which I think are emotional and physical and spiritual all because I was not owning nor did I know how to own my true self and I couldn't have even defined what spirituality or what, you know, all of those things meant. I didn't understand it to me at that point. A psychic was somebody that you saw, um, in a circus fair or you know, that, that you went for a psychic reading at some that's all that I knew of at that point, right. Like come behind a purple curtain.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I could not get enough of her. There was some, I was like, I like fascinated any book, anything. Yeah. Those kind of things. As a child, to me, um, I used to sit in front of a mirror and try to get into the mirror. Mm mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Stuff. Me, my Wei board. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Yeah. All those things. So I, um, yeah, so then, um, you know, got married very young, had two children did all the things that I thought I should do. And um, I left that at uh, 34 and when I left that, it was as though it was this opening for myself and in the opening also came the mess.
Speaker 4 (13:51):
Mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (14:41):
I think it's coming back to us now. Right. But I, there was an interesting quote I read and I'm gonna get it wrong or something that somebody had posted at some point and I just saw it, but it said, why do we shame the witches? Um, but not the people that burned them alive,
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Which was an interesting quote, you know, way back in the day that, that there were people burning witches, but they were not judged at all. We were judging the people that were just making like
Speaker 4 (16:17):
Yeah. Have you heard about the term, the witch wound?
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Mm-hmm
Speaker 4 (16:21):
Yeah. So if anyone's more curious about this topic check, do a little, uh, duck do go or Google, whatever use on, on the witch, on the witch wound, this could lead you in the right direction. Yes. So, okay. So Cindy, you mentioned something really pivotal, which is at 34, you left your marriage. Yes. What, what was going on for you then? What caused this, uh, upheaval and uprising
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Mm-hmm um, so I've written a book, uh, about that, um, my journey into happy and, um, and, and he's, he's very aware of the many, many things. I always say, we get a tap, we get a nudge, we get a kick and we get then the brick that just falls on us. Right. And, uh, there were many, many things that were, you know, I did not listen to the tap or the nudge or the whatever. Um, and, and I will say too, um, being self reflective, I was an active participant in that
Speaker 3 (17:41):
Including the fact that near the end, I got shingles down my mouth. Um, and, uh, I will look at that also as me holding onto probably pain and emotion, uh, the stress of it going down into my throat. And, um, it resulted in, uh, Rams hunt, uh, um, syndrome, which is like pH's palsy and shut down half of my face. Um, and that was near the end. There were, there were some other triggers as well. I nearly lost, um, my baby, um, due to poisoning, there was several like the hits, right.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Thank you so much for sharing that, Cindy, I feel your heart and all this. And you know, that I love and honor you. And I think this is something else that a lot of men and women and non-binary people can relate to that, that struggle of knowing something, whether it's a marriage or, uh, something else isn't right. But just how difficult it is to leave those things. So I just really honor you and thank you for sharing this aspect of your journey with us today. Thank you. Um, and now look, you can look at you now you’re successful and you're open and you're doing your thing and creating all those things. And, and so, you know, it's easy to think, oh, well of course she did that, but the U of today was not the U of that time. And there was a lot of work and difficulties in between then. So now do you think that there was an unseen force, whether you call it spirit or God, or as a source or whatever it is, that whatever word that was helping you in that, in that moment and how do you, how did the awakening of your gifts coincide with that time of your life?
Speaker 3 (20:35):
Yes, so I, um, so I, I left that and then, and that was, it was so, so scary. So I do always understand that for people, how scary that is. And then I had this, like, and I know, um, I know that there was something within me that knew, I ha like I got this momentum going. And then I was like, I just had to go. I had to go. And then I was in this state of, and I look back now on many choices in my life that, that you, you just basically you're on that diving board. Right. I always see it like, okay, it's a high diving board and then you're just gonna have to jump. And I had a baby and, and a toddler at home. And the fact that I jumped, I still can't believe, but I did it. And then I had this like state of euphoria for, um, about a year and a half of like, you know, you ride that wave, like, oh my gosh, like, this is incredible.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
Like, wow. And then it was like, I went under the water, um, for a little while of like, okay, now how do I actually make this all work? What's gonna happen? And, but I do feel I was, um, guided through that time to get me through that year. And then, and I'm always guided, I should say. And then I had a, a metal hit on the bed with a bed frame. Um, and yeah,
Speaker 3 (22:25):
And, um, and these are the sorts of things that do happen, but I didn't, I still didn't slow down. I got on a plane the next day, went to Minneapolis for a work, um, thing. And, and then I, I really lost it. And they said, you know, I had to go back in and they were like, okay, you probably have a bleed on the brain. And, uh, you need, you must stop now, like Cindy stop. And, um, and so then I was off work for four months. I could not drive, I could not walk around the block, could not function. And I remember they were showing me this page of animals and I could see that it was a giraffe, but I was saying, it's an elephant. And then they wanted me to say, my oldest son's birthday and I couldn't say it. And I was like, I, I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
And, uh, we had sticky notes all over, like closed, covered door, keep door closed, all of these things. And so, um, I oddly had gone to see, like, I need something, something to get, and basically I'll be honest. It was like, how do I get back to normal? Sure. But I went to Reiki and I had never gone for Reiki. And I was like, well, anything to get this sorted, just fix me. And I went for this session and it was as if my whole world changed and I saw things and I went again and I went again. She said, just keep coming back. And that's when she said, you could do this for yourself. And I then opened up a studio in my basement and offered se sessions for free for people eventually as I was getting better. And that's when I started to channel without realizing I was channeling.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
And I was like, what? It, like, it was like, something just started flowing through where I was like, why am I knowing this person has a tattoo? And why am I knowing that there's somebody? And all of a sudden I was like, this hit on my head with an actual metal back brain has allowed me one, the calm to be away from my work, because I could not, like for me, I had this fear of like, I have to always work from my children. So I got these like massive, like breaks from work in order to find something and then I'd find him. And then I just kept getting more and more and more and more
Speaker 4 (24:52):
Mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (24:53):
And then ironically, I got cancer, um, when I was too busy again. And, um, and so I had, and the joy of me, I got a joy of break off work again. And so what did I do? I immediately was able to take more course courses, which is when I did the energy codes course when I did the emotion codes course. Cause I was like, I can absorb it again. Like, so I could look at it as like, oh no, I got cancer. I looked at it as I don't have to work. I can bring in. And that's what I did.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
Speaker 3 (26:34):
So how did that relate? Like how did I,
Speaker 4 (26:35):
How do those two things, sorry, that's not a great question, but let me try again, how do those things in your, in your world, how do you see if there is, or not a relationship between being this empathetic person? Not really fully being expressed in that yet. Yeah. Living your life, then that starts to come in and needing these needing is, you know, using that loosely, these kind of overwhelming physical manifestations to occur in order to get you to slow
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Down, slow down. Yeah. Yeah. I think for me it was the realization, which I know that, um, I, like, I've always said for myself, I'm probably the same as you up until this last year. Um, when I've really started to really be in my own. And I think I've always said I had no other option mm-hmm
Speaker 4 (28:12):
It sounds very relatable. I, I think a lot of people are gonna relate to this feeling of yes, really, you know, there's cuz there's probably a part of you before that that felt tired. Yes. And that felt overwhelmed. Yes. But that pushed through that,
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Right? Yes. And so that's what I think I have learned of like in my life during that time, and I hear people now where they're like, I can't afford it. I can't do it. I need to keep going. And I understand that. And I have always said, well, like how, like I'm, I'm a single mom, I've got two boys. I, I want, of course I want all of this, but my mindset was, I have to do this for us to, um, live this way. And um, and so that is, that is how I got here. Um, and now I look at it and suddenly like
Speaker 3 (29:15):
And it's really become this new, uh, belief for me of, um, how do I work? Well instead of working hard and I'm seeing this rapid growth for my business in the last three months where yes, I had to put that time in, but I'm seeing now, I'm like, oh my goodness, I can accomplish this much in two hours versus the 10 hours. And when I, when I rest, I feel better. And when I sleep, I feel better when I eat well, I feel better. Uh, which has really been a mind shift for me, cuz I, for so long, it was like, I must work this many hours. I must put in this, I must do this. I must think about this and things as simple as I need to ask an arc angel for help, which I was never my way before. And now I'll just lay there and say like, could you please just lay with me? And I mean, these are concepts. I don't know if all of your listeners will agree with or understand, but for me it has been the most beautiful shift in my way of going. I surrender to, I Des I surrender to, this is not my path. This is much greater than me and I deserve, we all deserve wellness and mm. And we deserve calmness and we deserve steadiness. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:47):
Oh, I agree. So deeply Cindy and yeah, as you were talking, you know, I think there's a lot of pressure in the, in intuitive wellness world, you know, you can manifest your future and all this like pressure that gets put on us. Oh, you know, yes. You can quit your job and everything will open up for you because it's the right path. And I think sometimes that's a little backwards for people because yes, you know, what I, where I, the place that I come from is, um, I'm, I'm kind of like a physical person, right. So I come from, um, the nervous system perspective, like, yeah. And I see what you did, which is that you, you allowed yourself the time you needed and the space you needed to get to the place you are in the messy blissful way that you did, you didn't force yourself.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
You didn't all of a sudden talk to spirit and quit your job and start a business. And, you know, it was step by step, which is basically you honored your body. Yes. And there's, you know, I would love to just hear, you know, I, I know that about, I don't know, was it like six or eight months ago, you sort of had another process yes. That you went into. Right. And yes. And I think I'd love to hear more about that because I think sort of where we're coming to is this idea of perfection and that like life has to be this perfect well thing and that doesn't have these upheavals and mass, you know, and I just, I know that you don't stand for that. I know that you stand and you're, and that's your goal with people is to help them really open up to all of themselves and not just the tidy parts. Right?
Speaker 3 (32:17):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (32:17):
So I, I'm trying to get to a question in that because I love what you said, but, but that no, I to honor the pace that we're at.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Yes. And I think that is so what happened? So yes. So as you can see, and I think that's the thing where people are like, I, I got this great manifestation and I'm gonna leave my whatever. Right. And I, um, and even with my, um, with my process, with my partner of like 15 years when I left that 10 years ago or whatever it was that, and he knows this very well, that took five years, uh, to leave it right. Like it wasn't something that just one night overnight, I decided to leave it and there was many conversations. Um, and I think that's something that we, we sometimes forget, like the process in thought and the process in pause and the process in trying and, and give and take for those things, which has allowed the two of us now to work so well together in, in our new space as parents.
Speaker 3 (33:16):
Um, and, um, and so sometimes people will say like, oh my gosh, you're so spontaneous. I am spontaneous in many things which are, um, you know, fun to do, but then I am really not spontaneous in a lot of things. Um, but, uh, but yeah, so I think I have, yeah, I started the Reiki and, and then moved transitioned to, into all these things. But I have been so bloody authentic with who I am. Mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (34:11):
And I've allowed myself to grow and know that certain things will work and certain things won't, I will test something out for myself and then go like, no, it doesn't work for me. I'll try it. No, I'll learn something, try it. Um, I, but I always go to my internet rather than the internet and I always ask up, mm. And so over the last eight or nine years, I've worked full time and then done this quietly for myself, building the business slowly, slowly, slowly. And then, um, and it was, it was about six or nine months ago. I was so broken at work, which again, it was like, um, a relationship gone bad that I'd been holding on. So too, so tight in the belief that that was what was gonna keep my family safe. But in the end it was not because I was so sad.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
And so I had to, again, trust the fact that this would work and what happened was one day I just said, I asked up and I said, I need you to help me. I I'm done. And the next day I got a note in my inbox for an offer for a three month contract. And I didn't look for it. I didn't do anything about it. And I just said, yes, I didn't know how much that contract was gonna be for. I just knew that three month window would get me from a to B. So I left a three month position or a 17 year position, which was very solid and very secure. And I walked in the next day and everyone was floored for a three month. One that would give me them space where I could come into my house and do the work while then allowing blissful to grow, which had, had never been able to do cause I was working full time.
Speaker 3 (36:08):
So I could transition people into the daytime and start to see if this was possible. And I had to trust myself. And, and basically I had said to myself, the next year is going to be like nothing I've ever seen. It's going to be busy. It's going to be crazy, but it's gonna be busy for me and not for somebody else. And that's what I've done. And it's, it's the three month contract ended and I am now fully blissful and it is like nothing I have seen and there have been mess and there has been chaos and beauty and magic and like nothing. Like, I can't even, I can't even,
Speaker 4 (36:50):
I have two questions for you.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (36:52):
What would you tell somebody who listens to you and says, well, that's wonderful for her that she can ask up and get an answer, but that never works for me.
Speaker 3 (37:02):
Yeah. Uh, I would say that, uh, we all are on the same divine space and that, um, and intention is the very first thing and that I completely understand why somebody would say that. I totally understand. Yeah. Um, and so that, uh, that I always say, we're all not, we're not special, right? Like I am, I am not somebody who's special, but I do get that. I do get why. And so when I do a mentorship with people, the way I ask up can be very different than the way that you ask up. And so it's finding what works. Like I say to somebody like, you might wanna just go in the shower and you have no idea that when you're suddenly talking to yourself that is asking up, or when you are singing, all of a sudden you get one song after the other song, after the other song that is your asking up. But we have not been, uh, opened for ourselves enough to realize that that is them going, hello? Like we're talking to you.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
Yeah. This is a great tangent because I think that, you know, I'm somebody, I relate so much to a lot of what you said, you know, very, very awake and aware as a kid, completely shut that stuff down. I'm not gonna curse on this. And, uh,
Speaker 3 (39:14):
Yeah. So I, um, I'd started this, you know, I, um, I got, I got, I was offered, um, a mentorship, um, for myself, I'd gone to see Natalie Miles and I don't know if you know, Natalie Miles, um, beautiful, um, intuitive. And I'd gone to see her, um, along, I'm going off on a tangent and I'm sorry, don't
Speaker 4 (39:34):
I want it tangent
Speaker 3 (39:35):
Speaker 3 (40:22):
And about one month later, I had done an event for my own friends. Cause I was curious about this. And this woman came in, did this beautiful night of intuition for all of us, which is now what I offer to people. And she offered to mentor me for six months for free. And I learned such strategy. Um, and she just said, I always do this for one person every year. And then I do do a mentorship program and I wanna do this for you. So I then created this for myself and I did. I started it by offering it to one person for free. And it was such a beautiful gift for me to learn, uh, how to do it. And I always will offer it for one person now for free. So what it is is it's a 12 week, um, mentorship space and I, you, you go through it each week.
Speaker 3 (41:10):
Um, it's all online. Um, and then there each week has what I call it's like, um, study groups. So everyone comes together and then we practice together. And by the end of the, a few weeks, you all get to practice your intuitive ways on each other, as well as some people from my other groups come in and you can practice on them. But each week you get, uh, your PDF files of what we are working on, whether that's muscle testing, whether that's, um, you know, all the different chakras, what all of the different spaces, as well as I talked about real life things like, uh, it's great to say like, okay, this is your third eye, but I wanna say to you, you know what, in real, we have to balance human life. Allen's human life with spirituality. And when I reflect on my eight years and why this has worked for me, I know how I use my intuition.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
And that's what I want to teach forward to people that it doesn't, it's not all about sitting on a stool and humming, although that's amazing. You're not, you won't, you won't do it every day. And so I just basically believe intuition is like a training of your mus your muscle. So this is how you are going to keep training this muscle so that you will use it by the end of the 12 weeks. I guarantee you could use this in, in, as a business for yourself, or you can expand this in what other business you want, or you can just have this for your own life to become stronger.
Speaker 4 (42:41):
Amazing. And how you know. So I think that's such an important thing for people is that bridge, right? You know, I know a lot of people listening to this are probably curious, you know, they read whatever the title will be. They see psychic medium. They're curious. And I think if you're curious, most people are curious because they feel that wanting to awaken in themselves. Yes. And so I think having someone like you to be this bridge to help people unlock themselves and open, and those are the words I feel like we both agree upon. It's not about, you know, you telling someone something that they don't know it's about helping them unlock within themselves. Yes, yes. Things that want are wanting to be received, but there's a, a block there, right? Yes.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
Yeah. That's what I found with everybody. Who's done it. They ha you have it. Mm-hmm,
Speaker 3 (44:18):
And if you can just go in deeper for you, then you will be stronger. Whether it's that you are, you know, you're working the stock market, whether you are working, like whether you're a chef. Well, if you understand how to be, like, I have a friend who says, well, I'm not intuitive. And I'm like, have you seen yourself in the kitchen? You are a hundred percent intuitive, but your way of being an intuitive, like I see you, well, almost eyes closed. Like, just like knowing what textures to use, knowing this, knowing that you are intuitively cooking. If you watched meat in a kitchen,
Speaker 4 (44:53):
Speaker 3 (44:56):
Nothing intuitive about it. So that's where we just have to understand, we all have the gift
Speaker 4 (45:03):
And what a world it would be. Right. If everybody opened to their unique intuitiveness and didn't have, you know, so I think what we're doing right now, what you're doing for our listeners is helping people expand their view of what intuition is. So yes, I know that the word intuitive has this sort of mysticism to it. And there is that, and you are that mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (46:20):
I truly feel now, um, that I'm so, so much calmer. Um, and so much more forgiving of myself. Um, uh, so much less judgemental, um, of every single human as well. Um, and so to me, I mean, I think I could eat like a brown paper bag, uh, to be honest. Um, and like, I think obviously what you nurture as you're drinking that beautiful drink
Speaker 4 (46:50):
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Is so good. But if you were drinking that drink and you were thinking, oh, I still need to eat so many calories. Oh no, I didn't eat that. Then what you just put into your body with your thought is so terrible. Um, and so do you know what I mean,
Speaker 4 (47:07):
A hundred percent there's
Speaker 3 (47:08):
These people that are eating a spinach salad, but they're like, oh, the spinach salad is not good for me cuz I didn't, I ate a, I ate a piece of cheese today. And so I really feel this sense of like I was, I don't know, I was talking to somebody and they were like, that has eight calories or something. And I was like, what? The high don't even know what calorie like, I'm like I would be so stressed. So I feel like now, um, I just have this beautiful, like, like I'm just looking at my window and that tree is so green. And I remember talking to a client and he said to me, before I met you, I saw flowers and now I see color. And it was such a beautiful, just so that sentence to me was like, that is it like when you see the depth of something and um, and I'm doing this energy group, energy healing now around the world.
Speaker 3 (48:00):
Um, and I'll stop on that. But it's I, what I thought was possible before when I just would do a distant, not just a, I'd do a distance, energy healing session with one person to me was so captivating and so beautiful and could hardly explain the experience. And now to sit there with 30 people from here to New Zealand, New York, London, wherever they are. And I can see every single person's guide come into the room as I call, I don't call my guide calls in. And then I, you wa like I watch in my mind as like Cody's guide arrives and then your guide comes to do work with you. And I am just there able to, to be a conduit. And then when it's done watching every single person come back to zoom with their faces. So like in awe of what happened for them. Mm. And, and I'm simply there. And I think there's so much more possibilities. We we've stayed small minded because we thought we had to.
Speaker 4 (49:11):
Yeah. I love that. There's so much more possibilities. And I'm just so grateful that you're on the forefront of that. Mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (49:19):
Speaker 4 (49:21):
And open to that. And you know, one thing also, I want people to really know about you is that because you're so committed and devoted to your higher self, to your intuition, you are always changing and you're always evolving and listening and you know, what started as X, Y, Z, even since I've known you, you're always opening to new possibilities. And so, you know, in terms of your wellness like that openness and that forgiveness and that compassion changes yourselves, you know, changes who want yes, like you said, like you could be eating something and putting the intention of love or putting the intention of fear. There's just, you know, so many variabilities. So I just love that. I love that, um, that aspect and that, that courage, you have to just keep following yourself. And is that something that you sort of consciously did? Like, I am devoted to this now, which is great, or is it just something that's grown over time? Like as you learned, I think yourself,
Speaker 3 (50:19):
I think it has grown over time and watching, and listening and hearing it's, it's hard to, to, to really love yourself. Right. It's very, very hard to, to say that this is possible crack. It's hard to say that what you're doing is a gift mm-hmm
Speaker 3 (51:24):
And so as much as I was giving out love to other people, because I believed it and saw it in them, I was stopping myself from my own potential, because I think I thought it was like gloating or whatever it might have been and reframing that to, no, this is just simply like, this is what I am meant to do. And as soon as I allowed that space of when I'd hear somebody, or somebody would say like, this has happened because of my time with you and allowing that to happen and go, like, it's actually, it's not about me. It's just the space so that I could then go like, okay, great, good. Okay. Then more, cause I never wanted to be like ego driven. Does that make sense?
Speaker 4 (52:10):
A hundred percent. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (52:11):
So now just going, like, this is just what it's supposed to be.
Speaker 4 (52:14):
Yeah. And just, you know, you, you sort of do it naturally. You do have this devotion, you have this devotion to following your intuition and to, to growth. And so it kind of just evolves for you. And I think it's so interesting. I love that. You're so, um, open to tears because have you ever watched reality TV? I've never watched reality stuff I have. Um, but I know I was watching this show recently and there's this one girl on the show and every time she would cry, she would instinctly be like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. And it's so interesting how people apologize, you know, it's going, you know, full circle back to what we started with. Like, there's this aspect of us that feels so, so ashamed and scared of our emotion and yes. And afraid to cry and embarrassed to cry and, oh, I shouldn't be crying and all these things. So I think, you know, I think that impacts our wellness too. And just, yeah, it's almost as if it's hard for you to put into words cuz it is so natural for you now that you're just, this is just how you live.
Speaker 3 (53:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (53:15):
Yeah. Amazing. Okay. Well Cindy, thank you so much. I have one final question. Before I, before I release you from the podcast prison, what does wellness mean to you?
Speaker 3 (53:26):
Wellness means acceptance, acceptance of where you're at and acceptance of, um, knowing we're not perfect and acceptance of others too.
Speaker 4 (53:36):
Beautiful. Well, I love you. I thank you so much for this time together. I will put all the links, but just say out loud with your voice too, where the best places for people to find you,
Speaker 3 (53:48):
They can find me at blissful, intuitive on Instagram, as well as my website, which is www blissful, intuitive.com. I try to make it intuitive.
Speaker 4 (54:00):
Yeah. And yeah. You know, I know you have a bunch of different offerings for people right now. So head over there, everybody and check out all the amazing things that Cindy has in store. Aw, thank you, Cindy. Have a great day. You too. Bye.
Speaker 2 (54:16):
A big, thank you again to Cindy Ryan, a blissful intuitive and a big thank you to you. My friends for embarking on this path with me of exploring what it means to be well in this wacky world of ours. I'm excited to be with you again next week. Same time, same place otherwise known as every Wednesday for one-on-one guidance. Or if you just wanna say, Hey, shoot me a DM on Facebook or Instagram. See you next time. Bye.