Welcome back, friend, to Create the Space with Cody Maher. In this special episode, I’m inviting you behind the scenes to experience what it truly means to intentionally align your home—and your life—with your deepest purpose. Today, you’ll join me for a raw and inspiring six-month check-in with my beautiful client, Cathy, as we revisit the journey we began together through my Activated Home process. You’ll hear the moment Cathy opens her Silver Box ritual, revealing intentions she’d completely forgotten—only to discover just how much of her vision for connection, abundance, and authentic living has already come to life. We’ll dive into rituals, surprises, and the magic that happens when you stop forcing outcomes and start creating real space for your highest calling. If you’re craving proof that honoring your environment can become a catalyst for extraordinary change, this one is for you. I’m so glad you’re here—let’s create the space together. What You'll Learn: What it feels like when manifestations actually land in real life How the helpful people and travel area of your home supports what's coming in The 30/30/30 framework: earth luck, heaven luck, and human luck Why writing your intentions down and forgetting about them is part of the magic How feng shui blends intention with action to create real change Why the intentions we don't write down are often the ones still asking to be felt
Hello, love, and welcome back. Or welcome for the first time to create the space. Today is such a special treat. We are going behind the scenes on what an actual consultation looks like and the kind of results clients see when this work has had time to move through their life. My beautiful client, Kathy generously agreed to let me share our six month check in with you. And what she pulled out of the corner of her home on this call is something I want every one of you to hear. It's. It's so cool. Anyway, six months ago, Kathy and I worked through my signature process called the Activated home. We did a full mapping of her home, we made shifts in the space and we walked through several rituals together. One of them is something called the Silver Box ritual. She wrote down what she was calling in, she did a process to activate that, which I'll talk about later, and then she tucked it away into a corner of her home. From there, she lived her life. What you are about to hear is the recording of our six month check in. Kathy pulled that jar out of the corner on camera and opened the scrolls she had completely forgotten about. She read them out loud for the first time. And what she found on those scrolls is both shocking and completely expected. This is what happens when you stop trying to control how your life unfolds and start aligning the place where you actually live. Your home. Now, this episode has been edited, but that's just because I wanted to take out some of the fluff, like when Kathy has to feed her dogs or when Montana comes in to say hello. All of that stuff, stuff, we are not editing the actual content. You get to listen to the way that this actually happened. Okay, so here's our conversation. It has been the best. Yeah, six months. It's been busy. Like, I had events in the calendar, so every month I had an event and they're mostly travel events, so that was great. And, and then I had my birthday and Riley's birthday this past couple of weeks and that was exceptional. So, yeah, no, life has been really good and busy. The energy's just been really flowing strongly and I'm holding on tight and I'm expanding and allowing for more space to, to, to just to. For me to hold more space and have bigger capacity. And that's happening. So how that's transformed or manifested, you know, starting back in January, I'm not even sure my brain goes back that far. But I did a huge event in Park City for 100 people that was really well received and just connective tissue, you know, it's like, all these people are craving culture and connection, and it's a gift to be able to put that into play. And then March was. I had like three events in March or two events in March and one was in Dallas. And that was really, really fun. Was a technology event, which I'm obsessed with. And then, and then April's here and it was my birthday and I was in Los Angeles last week. And that was so fun. And I am just stepping into the life that I want to live. Amazing. Yeah. Wow. And what are you feel like when you sort of like, connect the dots between what you did at home and all of this that is occurring? Like, do you. Can you feel a connection? Like, is there something specific that you did or does it just feel like, you know, what. What is that connection for you? Like, I'm not saying it's nothing is ever everything. Right. Like, we talk about. I talk about the 30, 30, 30% thing. I don't know if I've said that to you before about how, like, Feng shui believes, like, 30% of what happens is based on your earth energy, which is Feng Shui. 30% is your heaven energy, which is just like destiny. And 30% is your human energy, which is like what you do. Right. And so just like understanding that, like, what. What do you feel about what you did and what has occurred? With that in mind, I would. I would mostly credit it to alignment. Right. So I am looking to be the most aligned version of myself and have less performative aspects of me. So in that pursuit and meeting and getting. Connecting with you, the ritual we started with in December, which is probably still in a corner. Yep. Still have a jar in the corner over there. Silver Box. Yeah. Well, have you looked in that yet? I don't remember what I did over there. What is in my corner? I forgot. What do we do in the corner? It might have been the silver box. I don't know. It could have been the Silver Ritual, which they call it Silver Box, but often it's a jar. But it's like you write the things that you're calling in and you wrap them in string 108 times and then put it in the jar and put it in. That's probably what's there. It's really. It'll be really interesting to see what you wrote. That's always been about, like almost six months. Let me go get the jar, you guys. Hold on. Okay, let's see. It's a jar wrapped in tinfoil. Yep, that's it. I'm going to video this, because I feel like this is probably, like, something that would be really meaningful. All right, so I'm unveiling the first unveil. All right. My presence is deeply connected to Source at all times. I am able to lift people up because my cup is full. My connection is deep and authentic. May this connection be blessed by all the wisdom keepers, ancestors and family and friends who guide me to this path of awakening with grace and ease to channel more love and lights with ease and grace. I am so deeply connected to my purpose that I am grounded when the rich abundance comes with ease and grace. My life is rich with deep, meaningful relationships and full of connection to Source, purpose, friends and family. Nailed it. Oh, yeah. I mean, you just. Let's just hire Cody right now. I'm just saying that that's basically what I just experienced for the last. I don't even know, six months for sure. That's amazing. Okay, that's one. This is two. And my oven saying that it's time to go put my meatloaf in. Anyway, so this. This silver. Let's talk about what this silver thing is. I'm recording it. It's called the Silver Box Ritual. It's called the Silver Box Ritual. It's actually really funny. I just released a podcast today where I talk about that. But so basically it was in your helpful people and travel area, which is interesting because you've been traveling a ton. And it's a ritual that's just basically calling on the energy of metal, because metal is the element that's most aligned in that area of the Bagua. That's why we put it in a silver box. Right. Quote, unquote. But you silver tin foil jar is also a silver box, and then it's wrapped with string 108 times. And when you did it, what you were doing was like, really sealing that intention and then just letting it go and trusting that it would come back in whatever way it was meant to come back. So I've just unwrapped the second string, attached stroll, and I will read it. Oh, it's got two in here. Really? I was going crazy. Wow. All right. This one's long, but I'm just going to jump in. I see. I'm on my private plane, going on tour with my message of hope. The message is a podcast that reaches over 200,000 listeners and helps bring new awareness around relationships. It is also a groundbreaking album that tunes people into the frequency of higher energies of love, hope, acceptance, authenticity. The music is from the heart and touches people's hearts. Over 2 million downloads to date. This is a magnificent magnification of the message channeled of love and light that's actually in process. So I see. Yeah. You started a podcast, did you not? Yeah, I did. I see myself in a home with a music studio and grandkids running around. This home is filled with friends and family. Mark and I are equal and independent and great playmates. I enjoy a wild sex full of passion and thoughtfulness. I have a deep connection and reverence for my body, my temple. And it's resplendent with love and light codes that keep my vitality strong. Riley is a thriving young woman who pursues her passion and remains deeply connected to source and her own body of wisdom. Mark is now deeply connected to spirituality and is making millions by reaching people with his message of music, ADHD and storytelling. Good future. Yes. I mean, I think that one's like a little more of a long game. Yeah, that's a long game. That's not a six month game, girl. People, I'm unwrapping this next scroll, which I guess I ran out of string. So I had a couple of different pieces. You know what, like that long term one, you can totally just like sit with it again, re energize it, wrap it again and put it back in because that one is like still cooking, you know? Yeah, it's cooking. Yeah. All right. And this one, let's just see what we have. I love these, by the way. I don't remember these at all. So this is fun when you don't remember something fun. Okay, so. Oh, these are my puppies. I'm grateful for the amazing dog care for Zeus and Apollo. I see them with a part time walker who takes them on long strolls and allows them to sleep upstairs while she's in the playroom. This wonderful woman has high integrity and is and a kind heart. She walks, feeds, sleeps and is gentle and her energy feels. Oh my God. And what's crazy is this woman, Emma, it just came into our life, this new dog walker. Maybe when I was in Los Angeles. So last week. Yeah, last week, people, this happens. I mean it's amazing and like you're a very aligned person in general. So it's like when you do things like this and you're tapped in like that, like that's what happens. Emma. Thank you, Emma. Thank you universe. Thank you. 30, 30, 30 rule. So it's 30 spent spirituality, 30 hard work and then 30 what? Not hard workness. Feng shui doesn't see it as that. So feng shui defines this as like. And like you said, there's many different traditions and ways, but from feng shui, it's like they see that you have three types of luck, right? Your first type of luck. Well, there's no first, second, third. But the one first type of luck is feng shui luck, which is earth luck. So that's why we work with the energy of our home to activate our earth luck and to work with our earth luck. Then you have heaven luck. That's just destiny. They see that as unchangeable. It's when you were born, the sign you are the star you were born under, all that stuff. Right? Then there is human luck, and that is your actions that you take, what you do in the world and how you work, work with your own personal qi and all the other things. So that's how. Like, that's that cosmology. Cool. I like it. So it's just. So this is like a blending of human luck because you're using your. And this is a lot of what feng shui rituals do, is that they, like, activate both human luck, because our intention is really powerful, and sitting and wrapping something, you know, 108 is. I believe Mala Beads is a hunter guy. Right. So 108 is a very spiritual number. And so when you're sitting there with red string, which is seen as activating and adding lifeblood to anything red, the color red, and feng shui that. Anything that we're using it in that way for. So when you're sitting there with your red string and you're wrapping 108 time, and I told you to hold this intention in your heart and really see it coming true. You're imbuing that with your human luck. And then you put it in helpful people, which is working with earth luck. But yeah. Anyway, so that's what this ritual is all about. And my last, my last, my last scroll. I see the podcast is sponsored by authentic brands who want connection, like aarp, Marriott, Delta, Whole Foods, Petco, Stella and Chewy homegoods Sephora Fresh Tart. Because the podcast magnifies the channel and met the channeled message of love. I love that. And it's funny because I have a call tomorrow with Sirius xm, my friend, about advertising. Wow. Podcast. So we'll see people. At the end of the day, what's happening is the best version of what you offer and the genuine appreciation that I have for this relationship and also for this, the power that we have in the world. Mm. That's so beautiful. Oh, I'm so glad we did. This little moment right here. So cool. Me too. Yeah. So it's real. Okay. What you heard, while completely amazing, is also not that unique. It's what happens when you start to intentionally work with your home. And you have the wisdom of Feng Shui behind you. So this process that Kathy and I worked through together is something I'm calling the activated home. That name might change, but stay with me for now. It's a six week engagement and it's built around what you're actually calling into your life or what you'd like to see less of. We start with your specific intentions and the entire process is shaped from there. So together, we're mapping your home room by room. You receive a personalized report that reads your home from its birth chart to its elemental signature, the bagua map laid over your floor plan. And of course, we look at your own personal energy, both from a, A, B and nine star key lens. The recommendations are tailored to you. It's not generic Feng shui. And you've got me and a special AI I created with you for six weeks to put the entire thing into practice and to work through things together in real time. So if you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, like home is a stressful place, or like things are just harder than maybe they could be, your home is definitely part of the equation. It's also a place that many people don't to want look. Okay, so if you want to find out what this could look like for you, let's book a free chat. We'll talk about where you are, what your home feels like, what your goals are, and whether this is a good fit. The link for that is in the show notes. Kathy, if you're listening, thank you so much for letting us into your home to your process, and I'm so excited to see where everything keeps going from here on out. All right, my friend, thank you for being here and I'll see you next week. | 00:00:00.800 - 00:14:04.400